Your values are like your personal compass—they provide direction for your choices and behaviours. In this three-step exercise, you’ll work towards identifying, defining, and aligning your values.
The words you selected are important because they mean something specific to you. It’s important to be clear about exactly what these words mean to you, as sometimes people have different interpretations of the same word. For example, two people may have selected flexibility. To one, flexibility means the ability to be nimble in work style on a day-to-day basis; to another, flexibility means the interest in adding value to different types of organizations or working on different types of projects.
Since the words you chose resonate with you, you likely have a strong association with a way of describing them that is both personal and powerful to you.
Write a sentence to each value that defines what the value means to you.
Now, perform a quick self-assessment to measure your alignment with these values. For each value, give yourself a score of 1 to 5, where 1 indicates I am really not living this value and 5 indicates I live this value very consistently.
Select the value that you feel is most out of alignment and most critical to your happiness and success. Focus on this value for the next 21 days. (Remember, studies indicate it takes 21 consecutive days of practicing a behaviour to create a new habit.) Each day, reflect on how you might employ that value in what you are doing. Just the act of having that value present in your mind each day will allow your subconscious to do some of the work for you as you seek new ways to be in alignment.
Your passions fuel your actions. When you integrate your passions into what you do, not only are you more engaged, you create a powerhouse of enthusiasm, engagement and inspiration for those around you. In this exercise, you’ll have the opportunity to step back and think about your passions, how you can integrate them into what you do and how you can connect them with your career goals.
Begin by answering the questions below:
Now, take a look at your responses and ask yourself these questions:
Make a commitment to create a passion integration plan. Document the ways you will integrate your passions into your day-to-day activities and connect them with your goals.
Your purpose is your big picture, internal vision of what you would like to achieve. When you combine clear values, engage your passions and take on purpose action, you can follow your personal road map to the destinations you choose.
It is important to visualize your preferred future and really consider what you want to experience and accomplish in your life and the impact it will have on those around you as well as those you may never meet. For those of you who have never been through a guided visualization activity, this may feel a little awkward at first. If so, consider repeating it at a later date when you can experience the greatest benefit. This will work best if you’re able to choose a quiet place and time where you will be undisturbed for at least 20 minutes.
Do this exercise when you’re with a friend who can read the guided visualization script (click here to download). That way, you can relax and immerse yourself in the experience. Now, get comfortable. Turn off your inner cynic and let your imagination run free—barefooted..
Capture here your journey back to the future:
You can either document all your thoughts or capture key elements. Write it in first person with an active voice, as though you were telling the story to another person right now. “I am…” “I have…” “I enjoy…” “I will…”
Capture key ideas and elements
Look at your responses. Do you see your values, passions and purpose showing up in your visualization?
Use different colour highlighters to help you put all the fuel possible into your opportunity engine. For example, consider highlighting:
Values in blue
Passions in green
Purpose in yellow
Are all the colours represented?
Did you learn anything new that you would add to your values, passions and purpose that are needed to meet your highest aspirations?
Giving back is an outward expression of your values and purpose and an opportunity to demonstrate your super skills. Giving back is good for society, it’s empowering and inspiring for you and those you will influence and it’s an important part of successful branding! In this exercise, you’ll identify the philanthropic options that will be most meaningful to you.
Clarifying your unique strengths, values, passions and purpose gives you great direction and criteria for what to say “yes” to and what to say “no” to when faced with the many opportunities and requests you will encounter over a lifetime. Let the work you have done to this point in your branding journey be your guide to choosing how you will use your time.
I want to use this giving back opportunity to:
… Showcase a strength
… Develop a new skill
… Align with my values
… Employ my passions
… Fulfil my purpose
Use the questions below to help you begin to find a cause that’s right for you.
Now it’s time to act for impact. Commit to at least one action below to get you started on your road to giving.